It’s mostly us men that join adult dating sites, so this article is especially for you. I wrote this article to address such questions as…
Are all adult dating services just scam operations?
Are there any real women at these adult sites?
Does anyone really get laid using an adult site?
Here are 5 things that you must know about adult dating websites.
1. The free membership won’t get you very far.
You gotta pay if you want to play.
2. Yes, there are REAL women on these sites.
And there are fake profiles as well. Stay tuned – more on this later.
3. The majority of the real women DO NOT look as good as the women you see on the home page and sign up pages.
In the back of your mind you probably know this already. At least I hope you do.
4. Most adult dating sites send you bogus emails, winks, and flirts from sexy “women” who want to talk to you.
Within a couple of hours (sometimes within minutes) after you create a free account, you get excited when you receive notification from a hot 20 something year old who is interested in you.
There’s only one problem – you need to become a paying member to respond to her.
So you eagerly whip out your credit card and sign up. You hurry up and send your response to this hot girl. Then you wait for a reply.
You’ve been duped.
NOTE: If you’re a 50 year old fat dude, and you think that a young girl with a hot body is anxious to talk to you, then you deserve to be duped. Not to sound mean, but it’s the truth.
The adult sites put slick words in their terms and conditions to protect themselves from lawsuits.
The tactics do work. But it’s still sleazy.
5. You can get some action. Just be prepared to work for it.
As I mentioned earlier, there are real people using these sites. It’s true. I’ve confirmed this myself and I’ve also seen comments by real men (and women) that have had sex with adult site members.
The trick is that you have to be persistent. Think about it – men outnumber the women on these sites by large margins. You have lots of competition.
If you don’t look like Zac Efron, you may have to put in some work. Just being honest.
You might have to contact many women to score. But you can score.
Save yourself some time by ignoring the profiles of the women who look too perfect. Glamour shots are a dead giveaway for fake profiles (or women who post phony pictures).
By the way, there are scam artists who try to get men to sign up at a totally separate site for which they’ll get a commission. Don’t fall for that one either.
It is true that many adult dating sites are pure scam, but there are some good ones. The unfortunate truth is that even some of the good ones have shady practices.
Can you get laid using one of these sites? It’s definitely possible – if you work at it.