If you are going to be dating online, chances are that you are going to meet someone who lights your candle. Sooner or later, if you date enough, you are bound to find someone who is attracted to you and to whom you are also attracted. Eventually, you are going to want to have sex with this person. How do you know when to bring up the subject?
One rule of thumb is to look for signals that your dating partner is tossing you. If a man or woman is attracted to you, they will show you some sort of signal that you can pick up on, if you are watching, that indicates they are sexually attracted to you. You should look for signals such as them leaning closer to you, touching your hand, putting an arm around you, holding your hand or simply a look in the eyes that you can usually spot.
Being able to read body language is an important part of internet dating. You should be able to read the body language of the other person when you are dating so that you do not do or say the wrong thing at the wrong time and spoil what could turn out to be a nice relationship.
In most cases, men are the pursuers of sex in the relationship and will usually have sex on the first date if given the chance. However, most men, if they are really attracted to a woman and are serious about her, will enjoy her company until she signals that she is ready for an intimate encounter. Men who bring up sex on the first date are usually regarded as creeps who are not looking for a serious relationship, so if you are a man and are looking for a time to bring up sex, the first meeting or date is not the time to do so.
If you are a woman and bring up sex on the first date, you will be regarded not as a sexual goddess but cheap and easy. Most men like the chase and enjoy the idea that they have actually earned something worth having. Forget what TV and movies tell you, the truth of the matter is that there is a big difference between the way men and women view sex. Put it this way, if women thought about sex the way men think about sex, they would all be hanging around construction sites, the docks, military bases and any other place where there were tons of men.
How to bring up sex when internet dating? When you get the signal. You will get far more from your dating experience if you both wait until you are both ready to have sex and understand the status of your relationship. If you are looking for a serious relationship when internet dating, do not broach the subject of sex right away. Start slow and enjoy the buildup.