If you have a submissive husband and you want to spice things up in the bedroom you will need to take matters into your own hands. The easiest and funnest way to do this is through dirty talk. Below I list several ways for you to talk dirty to your submissive husband and get him out of his shell.
It might seem that talking dirty to your husband would be easy, right? After all, he’s the guy who knows you better than anyone else. He’s the one who knows your most intimate secrets, especially when it comes to sex. He’s the guy who makes it all happen between the sheets! So why do you get so tongue-tied when it comes to talking dirty to your husband?
Talking dirty to your husband can be difficult because he does know everything about you. It’s not like talking dirty to someone you will never see again – what you say to your husband in bed will surely be remembered in the light of day, and that might lead to embarrassment. Revealing your true fantasies is always a daunting thing, but it can be even more so if you think those fantasies might be held against you.
Make dirty talk with your submissive husband easier by opening the lines of communication. Tell him you like dirty talk, and you have a few things you would like to try – but that you’re nervous about it. Assure him that you have fantasies you would never actually pursue, and ask him to tell you about some of his. Is there anything that he has thought about doing but would never actually make a reality? If he opens up about some of his fantasies, that’s the green light to open up about a few of yours.
Keep the atmosphere between the two of you very open and understanding. When you are in bed together, gauge his reaction as you whisper naughty things into his ear. If he is into the dirty talk and asks you lots of questions, answer them! Your enthusiasm for dirty talk will show him how badly you want it. Tease him by asking if you can “practice” on him, and then try out new things. You might be embarrassed and blushing, but since he knows it is “practice,” he will be happy to encourage you.
Learning to talk dirty to your husband will take some patience and understanding, but once you’ve cleared the air with your intentions, your husband just might become your ally in learning new dirty talk phrases. Ask him to look on internet sites and read naughty books with you to get ideas. You might discover a whole new world of sexual excitement with the man who has been by your side all along!