Wouldn’t your relationship be amazing if you could make him think about you all the time? Most women secretly dream about this. The idea of our man being so completely crazy about us that he can’t go more than a few minutes without thoughts of us invading his mind. It may be a wee bit unrealistic but it certainly is romantic. Naturally, everyone has responsibilities in life and can’t spend all day, every day, dreaming about the person they love. You do want to be a constant in his mind and heart though and there are ways to ensure that happens. You can make him love you so much that he can’t even imagine the thought of not being your man.
If you want to make him think about you more make yourself less available to him. The old advice of playing hard to get seems better left in a past generation to most of us. We’ve all heard stories of women who pushed a man’s advances away until his heart melted and he was so in love with her that he made some monumental romantic gesture. This is the stuff that movies are made of. It does happen in real life too though. Playing hard to get works. It’s a simple fact of life. It ties into a man’s natural instinct to hunt. If you’re not jumping through hoops trying to get him to fall in love with you, he’ll find you more appealing. He wants and needs to feel as though he has to work at getting your heart. So don’t be accessible and always available to him. He doesn’t really want you to be.
You also must present yourself in an honest and genuine fashion if you want to make him think about you all the time. One very common mistake that women make when they are trying to endear themselves to a man is they transform into someone they’re not. They don’t act the way they normally do. They stifle their own opinions because they don’t want to conflict with how he thinks. The sad part is that they do this because they think it will help them deepen the emotional connection with him. Quite the opposite actually occurs.
Men don’t want us to change to fit into their criteria. They want a woman who is original, self confident and opinionated. Men find that refreshing and irresistible. You want him to think you’re different than anyone he’s ever met. If you present yourself like every other woman, he’s going to see you as plain and boring. Be who you are always. Let him see you in all your glory with all your flaws. That’s all you have to do is you really want to make him think about you more and more.