If you have a marriage in trouble because your wife doesn’t trust you then you’ve got a long haul ahead of you, but not an impossible task.
Obviously trust in a marriage is vital for it to have any hope of surviving.
But if you’re in a marriage where you wife doesn’t trust you, what do you do?
Getting to The Bottom of the Trust Issue in Your Troubled Marriage…
First thing’s first. Why doesn’t your wife trust you? Have you done things to make her not trust you? Have you cheated, do you flirt with other women, are there women calling your cell phone or texting you?
If any of these things are happening then it’s not hard to figure out why you have a marriage in trouble. Now a lot of men will talk to other women and try to convince their wife that it’s innocent. The bottom line, whether you think so or not is that if you’re doing these things then your wife is right, and if your marriage troubles are going to end then it’s YOU who MUST change and change fast.
What if There’s No Real Grounds to My Wife Not Trusting Me?
Of course there are times when the coin gets flipped and your wife doesn’t trust you, but has not solid reason as to why she doesn’t.
Usually this has more to do with her own insecurities and jealousy issues than anything else. The only caveat to this is that you may still be doing something that you’re not realizing so before you jump to the conclusion that it’s all in your wife’s head, then you should dig deep first to see if there’s anything you’re doing.
If you do that and there’s nothing then there’s some things that can be done to help alleviate these problems.
But First What NOT to Do if Your Wife Is Having Trouble Trusting You…
The thing that you don’t want to do is get defensive about it. Sure it’s annoying and is definitely causing problems in your marriage and it feels like it’s on your account, but the thing not to do is argue about it. That will get you nowhere fast.
Don’t try to talk your way into trust. Trust isn’t built by saying trust me. In fact that’s usually the thing that leads to someone not trusting whether in a marriage or otherwise.
What to Do if Your Wife Doesn’t Trust You…
Try to Get to the Bottom of Why… This is where you may find out that you’re doing something that you weren’t even aware of. Becoming aware is the only way to fix the problem.
Do Things that Earn Trust… Your wife just might want to be recognized more as your wife. So make sure that you always introduce her as your wife.
Also you can do things in other areas that earn trust that carry over into the emotional parts of your marriage. For instance if you say you’re going to be somewhere then be there. If you say you’re going to do something then do it. Etc. Etc.