In this article I am going to give you techniques and a few things to say on a first date that will give you a deep rapport (connection) with the girl and you will both have a great time.
#1. Listen Up!
More importantly that talking and shovelling loads of interesting things to say into your mind, remember the goal, to date her and have a fun time. You will have a better time by her being more relaxed.
She will be more relaxed if you show genuine interest and relate to her. After all, you want to get to know the person in front of you as much as possible because the second date is a big commitment!
#2. Talk About Common Interests
If you know about things you both have in common, talk about those. If you don’t then this is the perfect time to find out what she does in her spare time, where she is from etc and by exploring things that you have in common you will both want to talk more and get that feeling of deep rapport and connection.
Whatever you do, don’t bring up ex girlfriends, or her ex boyfriends unless she brings them up. If she starts talking about her ex boyfriends, subtly change the topic. You deserve the attention tonight, and you do not want her to see you as a friend.
Talk about what you are doing now, in this week, and day. By talking about the past you kind of sound like you live in the past. By talking about the future you sound like you are a dreamer.
Only mention them if you have genuinely achieved things there. By mentioning things such as “I run my own business” or “I’m taking a college course” you bring yourself more into the now and she can relate to somebody who is here.